Jingshine 7 Posted April 14, 2018 Report Share Posted April 14, 2018 Hello ,I am a 35 years old woman, living in ajijic, looking to adopt a baby.does anyone have information,thanks 2 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AngusMactavish 3,177 Posted April 14, 2018 Report Share Posted April 14, 2018 20 minutes ago, Jingshine said: Hello ,I am a 35 years old woman, living in ajijic, looking to adopt a baby.does anyone have information,thanks Unless you're Mexican, I would look elsewhere. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
pappysmarket 2,615 Posted April 15, 2018 Report Share Posted April 15, 2018 Yeah, it wasn't too long ago that an adoption controversy engulfed lakeside. Lots of folks from Ireland coming and many of them stayed in El Parque if I recall correctly. What was the final outcome of that if anyone knows? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MtnMama 1,289 Posted April 15, 2018 Report Share Posted April 15, 2018 Be very cautious. Start with an attorney be prepared for many layers of bureaucracy. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
solajijic 326 Posted April 15, 2018 Report Share Posted April 15, 2018 There was so much disappointment around that debacle. The poster should of course contact an abogado to get info but could also search The Guadalajara Reporter archives for some initial information and names of individuals and groups to further their foray into treacherous social law waters. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CHILLIN 1,674 Posted April 15, 2018 Report Share Posted April 15, 2018 I believe the legal barrier in Mexico is that every family member, on both sides, have to sign a notarized statement that they agree to the adoption. This becomes especially difficult if one, or both birth parents are lost in the wind due to drugs or criminal activity. Also,by nature and by culture, Mexicans are communal and family oriented, -there is always room for one more mouth to feed. This is changing now. But the feeling that every baby is born with a "bolillo", a bread roll, is still widespread, and many of the families are sustained by incredibly hard working grandparents. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Taaffe 334 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 No legal adoption of children under 8 years old , unless handicapped, by foreign nationals. Period. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Neus SOLBES&SOLBES 1 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 Hi Jingshine, You can. You need to fulfill the requirements by law that any Mexican citizen needs to fulfill in order to be able to adopt a child. It's a complicated process, and working with a lawyer is strongly recommended. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tomas 161 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 We watched a couple spend 3-4 years and 10's of thousands of dollars to adopt an young child from an orphanage near Joco..When it was all said and done they sold their home in Ajijic and moved back to their U.S.home . Their fear was that if they stayed here some long forgotten relative or lawyer would show up wanting $$$. The child is about to graduate from H.S. and all is well with everyone... A long process and very expensive... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Taaffe 334 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 I was wrong, it’s not 8 up but ‘Healthy children 5 to 15 years old, children with mild to severe special needs of all ages and sibling groups. Sibling groups will include at least one child 5 years or older.’ https://creatingafamily.org/adoption/comparison-country-charts/25-factors-consider-adopting-mexico/ the OP wants a baby, which is not possible in Mexico. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jistme 55 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 About 9 years agoI became friends with a young Irish couple who were renting in our new gated community in San Antonio. They had just completed the adoption of a beautiful l Mexican baby. Several of the Irish couples in their group had also successfully adopted,Mexican babies. We had a going- away party for their return to Ireland, and as far as I know these kids are growing up as Irish citizens. Suggest you get a good lawyer, before pursuing this venture. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ibbocat 105 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 We had a similar Irish couple stay next door to us to with a new baby, they departed suddenly a day before the federal police came looking for them. Next week there was an report in the local press about babies for sale. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kookielendmeyourcomb 43 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 18 minutes ago, ibbocat said: We had a similar Irish couple stay next door to us to with a new baby, they departed suddenly a day before the federal police came looking for them. Next week there was an report in the local press about babies for sale. We know a man, released not too long ago after six years in prison for “stealing” babies who were being adopted by Irish couples. He’s actually a pretty nice guy who is trying to rebuild his life now, and realizes he was involved in illegal transactions. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Al Berca 1,482 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 Good to know that a man who served six years in prison for "stealing babies" now "realizes he was involved in illegal transactions". Wonder how he figured it out. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kookielendmeyourcomb 43 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 27 minutes ago, Al Berca said: Good to know that a man who served six years in prison for "stealing babies" now "realizes he was involved in illegal transactions". Wonder how he figured it out. I think he accepted that he was wrong from the beginning and has paid his dues. Isn’t that what going to prison should be about? Reflection and rehabilitation? Redemption? Theoretically one comes out a better person? (Of course it is often not the case, we know that.) In this case, and in many others that have occurred similarly in several countries, the babies were basically given over to the adoption agency by a parent or parents (or orphanage) thinking they would have a better chance and were paid Or just for money. Many poor families sold the children, but didn’t always understand they wouldn’t see them again. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bmh 2,361 Posted April 16, 2018 Report Share Posted April 16, 2018 Ha Guatemala the same laws.. Back on a flight from Guatemala city to Mexico to LA in 94 I found myself on a place with a bunch of drk babies with white parents. They obviously were newly adopted babies .. I do not know if the laws have been changed but the OP may want to look into the laws of Guatemala. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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