How do you say??

[indiesmom]

I am female , so when I ask where is the bathroom, so I say donde es un bano?, or do I feminize it some way?

[cedros]

You don't feminize it.

[lauren]

I just say "Donde esta el bano?" (Where is the bathroom?) Bano is a masculine noun, thus it is preceded by the masculine article el instead of the feminine la.

[RVGRINGO]

Dónde está el baño is correct and the accents are required to indicate the proper pronunciation.

[carib]

I am female , so when I ask where is the bathroom, so I say donde es un bano?, or do I feminize it some way?

Donde esta el bano para damas. Or donde esta el bano, since they can see the gender.